Sweet Dancing Angels for my daughter in heaven

Saturday, September 19, 2026

Half Covered #song #lorijeanfinnila #singersongwriter #autonomy #humantraffickingcontrol





Me: ‘what does pushing the females legs a little when you have them in a vulnerable position mean in human trafficking: I was pushed into the wall being wheeled out of the operating room and in an er after a car accident another man unconnected to healthcare came in and pushed my legs around.’

A human trafficker wants to make a victim feel he controls her legs to strip away her physical autonomy and stop her from trying to run away or escape. : if they started this out in a hospital the female being gransported on a gurney, and again on a gurney in an ER does this fit
To answer your question directly: Yes, this scenario is a highly plausible and documented tactic used by traffickers to establish psychological and physical dominance [Health 1].
In the context of a story or character study, starting this manipulation while a victim is on a hospital gurney is effective for several reasons:
Why a Hospital/Gurney Setting Fits the Tactic
  • Inherent Loss of Autonomy: Being strapped into or lying on a gurney automatically restricts movement. In a hospital or emergency room (ER) setting, patients are expected to remain still, defer to authority figures, and allow others to transport them. This environment perfectly masks the trafficker's coercive control as "medical necessity" or care.
  • Exploitation of Vulnerability: If the victim is already injured, sedated, or physically weak, the trafficker can easily manipulate her perception. They might tell her she cannot walk, that her legs are paralyzed, or that she will injure herself further if she tries to move.
  • The "Savior" Complex: By controlling her movement in a chaotic ER environment, the trafficker isolates her from medical staff. They position themselves as her sole protector, spokesperson, and caregiver, which deepens psychological dependency (often leading to trauma bonding) [Health 1].



Saturday, August 29, 2026

Pheasants and Kings #poetry #lorijeanfinnila #womenwriters


Image by Lisa Yount from Pixabay



Pheasants and Kings


What I learned:


Feeling love and security 

Relies on Relationships


Poverty Belies a bigger problem


Servants and pheasants 

For what would be 

Without the friendship of thee


Sunday, August 16, 2026

Right Before My Eyes #strangulation #domesticviolence #lorijeanfinnila #singersongwriter

 


You have a greater chance of serious harm or even death once your partner has put his hands around your neck.


I still worry over 35 years later.

Saturday, August 15, 2026

I Drink the Earth As the Drip Seeds Suround Me #womenwriters #literature #lorijeanfinnila

 



Image by Briam Cute from Pixabay


I drink the earth

As the drip seeds surround me


I move as my bones crack 

I ignore them

I have better things to do


I listen to the poets that bring me joy

I lay with my feet up on the bed

I find relinquishment from this

The ease of stress releasing from my body

I feel my existence of me come back again


I twinkle feeling the touch of my intelligence 

which brings me so much joy and harmony

Even though the dredges still drip around me


I dot in the corner hovered over my ball

I worry my back will stay round and bent from this

I feel fire in my stomach 

Pressing up my throat as it passes


I find delight in the literary genius

That brings me joy



Leaves Falling #womenauthors #poetry #literature #lorijeanfinnila

 


Friday, August 7, 2026

She Walked Out On Her Own #lorijeanfinnila #singersongwriter #love

 


Image by Sunrise from Pixabay


And the girl she left

She walked by his life

Even though she was supposed to stay

She walked out on her own


But I still love that girl 

Though she's the bad one to everyone 

She walked out in her own


Everyone tells me to stay away

I can't help thinking about her smile


She has spunk 

She has style

She has no crumbs of him on her

Maybe I don't have to feel like all


She had a mind of her own

Did what she felt was best for her

She walked out on her own


This girl I love 

Though she's bad to everyone 

I cover her permanent dark eyes 

as though I'm the angel to cover them up

She walked out on her own

Half Covered #song #lorijeanfinnila #singersongwriter #autonomy #humantraffickingcontrol

Me: ‘what does pushing the females legs a little when you have them in a vulnerable position mean in human trafficking: I was pushed into th...